call UpdateEnabledDisabled directly

stepmania/src/ScreenMiniMenu.cpp

@@ -118,8 +118,8 @@ void ScreenMiniMenu::AfterChangeValueOrRow( PlayerNumber pn )
 			if( mr.pfnEnabled() )
 				optrow.GetRowDef().m_vEnabledForPlayers.insert( GAMESTATE->m_MasterPlayerNumber );
 		}
+		m_pRows[i]->UpdateEnabledDisabled();
 	}
-	UpdateEnabledDisabled();
 }
 
 void ScreenMiniMenu::ImportOptions( int r, const vector<PlayerNumber> &vpns )

stepmania/src/ScreenOptions.cpp

@@ -707,8 +707,8 @@ void ScreenOptions::AfterChangeValueOrRow( PlayerNumber pn )
 	{
 		m_pRows[r]->PositionIcons( pn );
 		m_pRows[r]->SetRowHasFocus( pn, GAMESTATE->IsHumanPlayer(pn) && m_iCurrentRow[pn] == (int)r );
+		m_pRows[r]->UpdateEnabledDisabled();
 	}
-	UpdateEnabledDisabled();
 
 	if( SHOW_SCROLL_BAR )
 	{