This attempts to organize all needed items and places appropriate defines
in a single location. Redundant comparisons/defines were removed when noticed.
A few caveats, however:
* This may be better targeted towards the 5_1_0 branch instead of master right now.
* Cmake will run a little slower on configuration/generation now. That's due to the sanity checks it runs.
* There are some more checks to be added later, but this should be a solid start.
Thanks to the [libical](https://github.com/libical/libical) project for inspiration.
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